Conversate with Akeem D. Earle

Welcome to the very first episode of Say More with Latoya, a new recurring segment on Conversate. In this debut conversation, Latoya explores a simple but powerful question: Are we actually conversating, or are we just waiting to talk? From dating and friendships to work and family, she reflects on why curiosity, active listening, and thoughtful questions create deeper relationships. Through personal stories, humor, and honest observations, she challenges us to move beyond hot takes and performative conversations and rediscover what it means to truly connect. If you've ever felt unheard—or wondered if you're really listening—this episode is for you. 00:00 Welcome to a New Chapter of Conversate 01:25 Introducing Say More with Latoya 03:15 Are We Actually Conversating? 07:00 The Problem with Hot Take Culture 08:40 Dating Isn't an Interview 16:25 Listening for the Door 18:30 Adding to a Conversation Instead of Dominating It 20:35 Vulnerability Creates Better Conversations 22:40 Friendship, Family, and Growing Through Dialogue 24:30 Why Conversate Exists 26:30 Better Questions Create Better Relationships 28:45 Final Thoughts